WE ARE WHAT WE ARE PROGRAMMED TO BE

When we are born, our minds are very quickly inquisitive and have lots of space in which to lodge things we learn And how do we learn? The very first teacher we learn from is our mother and then other adults or older siblings.

They teach not only by talking to us and thereby putting language into our brains but also by example. As very young children we are keen to copy the activities of older (and what we see as wiser, experienced) people around us. We are unable to perceive which of those activities are suitable and which are best left uncopied. In other words, because of our innocence, we allow ourselves to be taught and to believe in everything that is presented to us, good or bad. The very young are receptive to anything they might feel takes them on the road to being more grown-up.

Once the learning has been done, it is established deeply inside the subconscious mind and sets the patterns for our future behaviour. The fears, the phobias, the anger and aggression, the rejection and failure to be able to love or be loved, the lack of confidence, are seen as normal behaviour to be copied and continued into later life along-side more acceptable behaviour. It is so deeply entrenched that the difficulties that result from taking on one or more of these less desirable traits are not easily recognised by the individual that has them.

And the difficulties they create, particularly with relationships with our own children and with other individuals, can be enormous. But as we grow older we begin to realize that we have opportunities that we can take advantage of or reject, however we think best. Hypnotherapy provides such an opportunity for it can help to take away the feelings that cause so much aggravation within us. The use of hypnosis allows entry into the deep subconscious where the previous learning can be revealed for what it is, allowing an understanding of the situation and providing the ability to finally be rid of the hurts that have been installed within us.The opportunity is there for the creation of a better, more fulfilling life. For better relationships. For a safe, secure future. The choice is to continue as we are or to look forward to a happier, brighter, future.

It normally takes only six sessions of treatment with Elizabeth to rid yourself of the undesirable effects of earlier teachings and allow yourself to look forward to a more fulfilling life.